Knowing when to shut up

I’ve always been very talkative. Maybe it’s because I’m a social learner. Talking through things helps me learn. Maybe it’s because I like the sound of my own voice, who knows.

I’ve talked written about the importance of learning to listen.This is a very important lesson to learn as an organization. As an individual though I’m learning the importance of shutting my mouth.

• I don’t always have to prove I’m right
• I don’t have to correct everyone over every little thing
• I don’t have to share everything with everyone

I’ve learned that sometimes my exuberance about social media shuts other people down. Shutting up allows other people the opportunity to talk.

• Other people learn by talking through things
• Other people need to learn from trial and error
• Other people can/need to be right

Most importantly I’ve learned that sometimes shutting up helps you avoid friendly fire.

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